Why are you here? People Come into your life for a Reason, Season or Lifetime

When you Know which one it is, you will know what to do with and for that Person…but when you don’t know and confused about the purpose, you will misread them and possibly abuse the relationship, that was intended to really Bless You. Therefore, it’s crucial that you know early on what they are There-For!!

When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with Guidance and support. They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an End. Sometimes they die. Sometimes a negative or positive situation arises that forces one of you to walk away. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire Fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.

Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has Come to share, grow or learn. They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They take away the boredom and loneliness. They may teach you something you have never done. Be a companion to you when you really needed it. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy… Believe it, it is real. You may feel you are falling in love or just want them to stay, but like seasons they impact you and always change. So be thankful for what they taught you and shared with you, but they came to pass, let them go. When they move on, you may feel hurt, sadness, or regret, but seasons never come to stay, be it winter, spring, summer or fall.

LIFETIME, relationships teach you lifetime lessons, Things you must build upon in order to have a solid spiritual, intellectual, and emotional Foundation... Your job is to accept the lesson, Love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other Relationships and areas of your life. This person may be in your life just as a friend for a lifetime. You may share personal and intimate experiences that soars beyond friendship, feeling that you have a perfect chemistry and they are the only person on your mind all the time and thinking of ways to please them; you both may fall in love that leads to marriage. You may become co-partners as a team to accomplish a mutual passion or vision. It is said that love is blind but friendship is 20/20. When you Love your best friend you may become friends or a couple for a Lifetime.

LET IT HAPPEN, don’t try to make it Happen: some people try to make a reason into a season, and some try to make a season into a lifetime; and when it doesn’t happen, the pain and disappointment can be devastating. When it comes to a lifetime, you don’t have to Try, and without effort it just Happens.

Thank you for being a part of my life, Whether you were a Reason, a Season or a Lifetime.                                                

                                                                                         H.I.S. Singles Ministry,  H-healing  I-insight  S-satisfied